Today I’m grateful for my Valentines. I was single for 22 years and during that time I only had one Valentine, my Lord and Savior. I figured that since I was the bride of Christ I would conduct myself as such and think of myself as married to Him. I even wear a ring on my wedding ring finger reminding me of this position.
So when Valentines Day would come around I would be content most of the time with my Holy Valentine. The times that I felt lonely and wishing for a Valentine with flesh and blood I would pray that if it was God’s will that He would bring one into my life and if it was not that He would fulfill these feelings I was having.
Now I still have my Holy Valentine and God has seen fit to bless me with a flesh and blood Valentine as well. I feel so blessed to have both.
My human Valentine was so good to me and I’m so grateful to have him. He sent me a beautiful bouquet and wonderful card. I was sick Valentines day but he was so patient and kind with me, especially since I brought the sickness on myself. I’m diabetic and had consumed so much sugar the day before that I had sugar poisoning. Not smart and not something this addict is going to do again I pray that I’ve learned my lesson once and for all. Anyway that’s another story.
The next day I was feeling better and we took a lovely trip down the Pacific Coast Highway from Huntington Beach to Dana Point and came back home through the Majestic and Silverado canyons. This day trip was beautiful and fun just talking and watching the third love of our lives Tessa my dog looking and sniffing and all the new things she was experiencing. She was exhausted once we got her home.
Should you have felt alone this past Valentines Day my heart goes out to you. I know all too well how that feels. But may I encourage you to think of yourself as having a Holy Valentine and falling in love with that Valentine until He sees fit to give you an earthly Valentine? Trust me it’ll be the best love affair of your life.
Joy – A Fellow Sojourner & A Woman After God’s Own Heart